Friendships make the world go round!

Hello all, I have been thinking what to write for my blog on motivational Mondays. I have decided to talk about friendships, I have wrote a bit about this before, but I thought I would share a few thoughts on this.

So I always think of friendships as something we need in our lives, we need them in order to keep this world going. As humans I feel if we feel very alone, we have a wall of friends to fall back on.

I find in my life, it is really hard to make friends where I live, however I do have a lot of friends (don’t think I’m some sort of loner), I am a very shy person . However I have made many online friends, which leads me on to the discussion of making friends online.

I from experience have never had any trouble with making friends online, however some people will say its not for them. As the worry of not actually talking to the person behind the computer, If this is the case stop and assess the situation before talking to the person in detail.

But remember friendship truly do make the world go round, if we all didn’t have a friend or anyone to go to we would be lonely and quite honestly not every nice people. Remember a friend is there to always support you,  make you laugh, smile and there for you at any point. Otherwise they are truly no friend at all.

My advice to anyone who is seeking friendship online, don’t be needy and forceful, always be kind, honest and be you! So my rule of friendship is simply be you and be the good you.

night guys and see you all for another blog soon, please like, subscribe and follow my blog for more inspirational blogs. night!! 🙂


Hopes, dreams and being able to be YOU!!

Good evening all, I hope you are having a fun packed week. So today I just want to bring all my subjects I been talking about together. I have recently been thinking of content to write and I thought I write something from the way I think.

I as a writer have dreams one day to be a successful writer, that’s my hope and my dreams, but in order to do this I need to be me (the most important bit). You also need to think that in order to do this you need faith and commitment.

Now im not going to lie to you all and say its easy, its not. Each day will come as a challenge and be prepared to fall a few times, but you just need to shake it off and say I will do this! One thing I found that helped me more then everything is that I have a strong friendship group and great support network, make sure you are thankful for this too.

So my dear readers, this is my way of doing stuff, and I hope it helps you in some way at all, dreams come true if you make them happen.  Can I ask one thing of all of you readers if possible comment one word which motivates you everyday? mine is friendship having friends motivates me to get up every more and be me. What’s yours?

Thanks guys and I see you in the week and don’t forget to like, comment and follow if possible, Night guys!!!


Ways to get to see my recent blogs!!

Hello all, I just want to say thank you for coming and reading my blog it means so much to me that I have readers, I also like to thank everyone who has liked the different post this has given me a lot of hope and confidence for the future.

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By doing this you will be updated with what im up to and you have some form of interaction with me 🙂


Introducing fruity Fridays!!!

Hello all, so today I bought 2 fruit plants and I just wanted to come on and tell you about them, this is a trail idea, for a few weeks. I find growing things really good fun and I thought I buy these today and show you how they do.

I also thought it be a good idea to show you more of what I like to do 🙂

thanks guys and have a good weekend, p.s. sorry its so short 🙂

We all have dreams to be something one day!!

Hello all, today I just wanted to talk to you all about dreams, not dreams when you go to sleep but dreams that we have when growing up and when we are also being inspired. For example I have always dreamt of being a book writer.

My dream was to always write my own book and be something, we all dream to be something one day. But we all try and think realistically of what we can be or cant be, but what is being realistic?

So your dreams and forget about being realistic, yes I agree be true and real but at the end of the day, you should just reach for the stars and think you can do anything you want to do. Don’t let people control your life, let you be the controller of your life not anyone else.

Sorry for the irregular timing of blogs, I will stick to the plan next week cheers and have a good weekend!!

Bullying, what’s clever about it?

Hello all sorry im late with Mondays blogs, but tonight’s topic is bullying. What’s motivational about this you may ask? Because I want to tell you how I use to cope with bullying in school and even now.

Basically it starts with my weight, yes I am fat, no I don’t care what I look like. I care a lot more about other stuff then my weight, but anyways in my school years I was bullied about how I looked and obviously it hit home a little.

As I grew up I learnt to just be me not how I should be or what I should be like, people today have been told how they should look. Yeah look good for you and that you want to do it.

Don’t get pressured into how you should be, just because a bully bullies you into a hole of how you should be or act like. BE YOU!!!

sorry its a short blog, but I hope you like it and have a good rest of your day and see you soon Night!!

Two blogs in one night WOW :P

Hello all, just a quick blog update,

I have been trying to write content which inspires you, and to make you aware of things going on, I haven’t touched some subjects because I haven’t experienced them in my life, but I am willing to write about anything.

I ask you all to try and help me out too by following my twitter and contacting me if you want, I am here to listen to your stories and to hear suggestions on what to write about too, at the moment I write once in a while but I like to write more. However I wanna know who my readers are.

So please comment, like, follow or contact me because im willing to talk to you and get to know you all too.

UPDATES COMING SOON: I am gunna try and do different sections to my blogs so you get more content, like Mondays can be “motivational Mondays”, and so forth. I hope also to bring some of my friends into help and let them write some content on my blog. Please be patient but “Tomo writes” will be better then ever soon. 🙂 cheers all and have a great evening.

“Don’t judge a book by its cover”

Evening all, how are you? tonight I thought I come on and just write a quick blog on a subject, which I have noticed and have found more people think its alright to act like.

Today I was sat in work and I was thinking what category am I in, because of something I had read as a title of a magazine triggered something I hadn’t really thought about in my life. what category am I in? STUFF THAT!!!

Basically people of the world don’t think as yourself in a category, BE YOU!! All my life I had been happy being me, but today looking at one headline in the magazine made me think who I was.  Yes we are all guilty of thinking thoughts of what we would like to be like and could we fit in.

Well don’t, make yourself you own category, live your life and don’t worry about how you look or how you act. Life is too short to care about the little things like that.  The thing about me is that yes I could do with losing weight but will I be happy? Do I need to change for someone I don’t really know.

That brings me onto say when people joke about you and take the mick just ignore and be the better person as we are all amazing people in our own ways. So there is my little blog on how you shouldn’t care about what people see, just care and make sure YOUR happy, not them.

Night all and have a wonderful day today and tomorrow and the next day, BYE!!!

P.S I just like to say a big thank you for reading my blogs, you are actually helping me loads in my confidence to write again. Which is proving to help me to think about writing a book or something, so a big thanks to you all 🙂





Role models!

Evening all, I don’t know how to start this really, but I thought I might talk about my role model. He is the man in the picture and his name is Kenneth Williams, Kenneth Williams was an actor in the 1950s. You probably wonder how come a actor from that time caught my eye and became my role model.

He was a comedy genius in my eyes and knew how to make some laugh, love and smile. but what made me write about this subject, well I recently went into the city near me and they happened to have a pride parade going on. if anyone doesn’t  know what pride is its a parade for everyone to celebrate lesbians, gays, bisexuals and transgender (LGBT)  in becoming equal.

Well sadly that wasn’t always the case, this is where Kenneth Williams comes in, a comic who couldn’t be him not properly anyway. He was born into a generation where LGBT wasn’t accepted and illegal in some places. But he still made people smile, love and laugh.

This is where he became my role model, a man who couldn’t be him, but he was the one who made people laugh out loud but could never be happy himself. He had guts to get up and be an actor and carry on being in the public eye, and never giving up his dream. Yesterday made me proud that times have changed, but it also made me a little sad that the people we all enjoy watching on TV aren’t here to feel equal too.

So my words of wisdom for you. You are you, it doesn’t matter if you are in public eye or not your you. We are the generation to make the difference, making the right choices and making those who have gone proud.

Have a great evening and speak soon 🙂 NIGHT!!!!

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